BTMM :(

Well, I've come to the conclusion that BTMM just won't work from behind my network here in my office... although I did have a consultant connect to his from behind my firewall. I've even gone so far as to take out my UPNP/BTMM compatible router and replace it with an Airport Extreme... which should be very friendly to BTMM and I can not connect to my home iMac. I'm down to the point of reviewing Wireshark captures to see if I can figure out where the problem is.